Confidence builds consistency
Children stick with routines when they feel capable. Confidence is often the difference between “no” and “fine”.
What helps to say
- “Well done giving it a go.”
- “You did well today.”
- “Let’s do a quick finish together.”
What usually backfires
- Constant correction
- Critiquing every missed spot
- Turning brushing into a test
Support the effort, not perfection. Encouragement builds independence, and independence builds habits.